Your mind blanks and your child looks at you with anticipation. What should you do?
You may not realize it, but you have a wealth of stories to share. You don’t have to invent them on the spot. Personal stories, particularly from your childhood or from books you’ve read, are good starters.
Preschoolers and toddlers enjoy stories about characters from their favorite books. Whether you take Little Chick on a walk through the barnyard or Firefighter Bob on an exciting drive through the city, don’t worry too much about plot. Young kids enjoy the chance to share the chick’s peeping or the siren’s squeal.
Older kids can appreciate a funny twist, so take a favorite story and turn it upside down by changing the setting, characters or plot.
Make that zany cat with the big striped hat fly to the moon on a spaceship or come to your neighborhood and cause all kinds of problems. Make your child the main character in a wacky adventure that fits his interests (for example, traveling back to see dinosaurs or working as a train conductor).
Young kids enjoy hearing stories about you and your family. When did you lose your first tooth? Who was a favorite teacher?
Thinking about Mommy or Daddy as a little kid may spark the imagination. Maybe you want to share the story, passed down to you, about the ghost that lived in your great-grandmother’s attic.
And there’s nothing more delightful than a story about the time a parent did something mischievous and the consequences. Kids delight in these glimpses of a past that is connected to them.
When you tell stories, you show how to put words together to make meaning. You share something new about yourself that your kids may find interesting or exciting and that might be a springboard for questions and discussions.
Most important, you nurture a love of language and stories that kids will have for life.
So take a deep breath and begin: “Once upon a time ….”
© 2012. Article adapted from The Nemours Foundation/KidsHealth®. Used under license.